I.Chronicles

Reflection: All I ever really want is to at the end of each day sit on the edge of the bed and ask myself “ARE YOU HAPPY?” And for the answer to, undoubtedly, be YES. Happiness isn’t about what we have or what we own, the job we occupy or the “who’s who” of who we know. Happiness isn’t about things. It is simply about us. Who we are, what we value, how we think, what we believe. It’s a journey, not a destination. A state of being and not a commodity. It can’t be bought, earned or given. No one and nothing can make YOU happy. You make you happy. It starts and ends right there.

I brag about my friends OFTEN. While others stan for celebs, I stan for them. It has nothing to do with what they do, what they have or who they know but everything to do with who they are - their values, their beliefs. And also because on any given day they say ish like this. Not even trying to be profound but being completely real and reminding me what kind of life we’re all here to lead.

HAPPINESS IS A JOURNEY…

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5.1.13. GO YOUR OWN WAY

We see it often and sometimes don’t even catch ourselves doing it. Destination envy. Lusting after…

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Leggo

4.29.13. MAGIC

Definition of magic: The power of apparently influencing the course of events by using mysterious…

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Officially addicted. Can’t get enough. Thank you to the wife @abelleinbk for putting me on.

via THE Dream Pusher, Raeven Western (www.PushyDreamers.com)

4.25.13. THE HOMIES: CHALLENGES & OBSTACLES

We most often shy away from challenge but a present challenge, conquered, is a future victory and…

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Had to call up the bestie today to get checked on reality. She reminded me that too much time pondering over the past (especially the mistakes) is a waste. You can’t control what was, what you did, what you didn’t, who you hurt, wronged or mistreated but you can choose not to repeat it. Learn from your mistakes then, even if others choose to hold on, YOU choose to let them go.